How to Improve Your Health in an Unsupportive Environment
Are you struggling to make healthy changes in your life because those around you aren't on board? Whether it's your spouse, friends, family or coworkers, not having an inspiring or supportive environment can make it difficult to achieve and maintain a healthy lifestyle. But don't worry, there are steps you can take to improve your health even when those around you aren't on board. In this article, we'll explore practical tips for making healthy changes in your everyday life, no matter your environment.
Tommy Chang
4/24/20235 min read
Living a healthy lifestyle is not an easy feat, especially when you are surrounded by an unsupportive environment. Whether it's your family, friends, or coworkers, their sometimes unhealthy habits and behaviors can have a significant impact on your own choices. However, with the right mindset and strategies, you can still make positive changes in your life, regardless of your environment. Let's explore practical tips for improving your health in an unsupportive environment, with a focus on family and work.
Family
When it comes to family, it can be especially challenging to maintain healthy habits if you're living with people who don't share your commitment to health. Here are some tips for improving your health in an unsupportive family environment:
Communicate your goals: If you're serious about making positive changes in your life, it's important to communicate your goals to your family. Let them know why you're making these changes and how it will benefit you. This can help them understand and support your efforts.
Get everyone involved: While your family may not share your commitment to health, they may still be willing to make some changes. Try to get everyone involved in the process. For example, you can plan healthy meals together or take walks after dinner as a family.
Lead by example: The best way to inspire others to make positive changes is by leading by example. If you're making healthy choices, your family may be more likely to follow suit.
Set boundaries: If your family is actively discouraging your efforts to live a healthier lifestyle, it's important to set boundaries. Let them know that your health is a priority and that you need their support.
Work
Maintaining healthy habits in the workplace can be just as challenging as at home. Long hours, stressful deadlines, and unhealthy snacks in the break room can all make it difficult to stay on track. Here are some tips for improving your health in an unsupportive work environment:
Plan ahead: One of the keys to maintaining healthy habits in the workplace is to plan ahead. Bring healthy snacks and meals from home, and schedule time for exercise and self-care during the day.
Find an accountability partner: Just like at home, having an accountability partner can be incredibly helpful in the workplace. Find a coworker who shares your commitment to health and check in with each other regularly.
Take breaks: It's important to take breaks throughout the day, especially if you're sitting at a desk for long periods. Get up and stretch, take a short walk, or do some deep breathing exercises to help reduce stress.
Create healthy habits: Creating healthy habits in the workplace can be challenging, but it's not impossible. Start by making small changes, such as taking the stairs instead of the elevator or drinking water instead of soda.
Advocate for change: If your workplace doesn't support a healthy lifestyle, consider advocating for change. Talk to your employer about offering healthy snacks in the break room or creating opportunities for employees to exercise during the day.
General Tips
Regardless of whether you're at home or at work, there are some general tips that can help you maintain healthy habits in an unsupportive environment. Here are a few:
Set Clear Goals and Create a Plan
Setting clear, measurable goals and creating a plan for achieving them is essential to staying motivated and focused on your health goals. Whether you want to lose weight, eat a healthier diet, or exercise more regularly, having specific goals and a plan to achieve them will help you stay on track.
For example, if your goal is to lose weight, you could create a plan that includes reducing your calorie intake, exercising for 30 minutes a day, and tracking your progress by weighing yourself regularly. Make sure your plan is achievable and realistic, and adjust it as needed based on your progress.
Find an Accountability Partner
Even if those around you aren't supportive, you can still find someone who is. Look for a friend, family member, or coworker who shares your commitment to health, and ask them to be your accountability partner. This person can provide support, encouragement, and motivation when you need it most.
For instance, if you and your partner want to start eating healthier, you can hold each other accountable by checking in regularly to make sure you're both staying on track. If you're struggling to stick to your exercise routine, you can ask a friend to be your workout buddy and motivate each other to show up and push through the workout.
Create Healthy Habits
Creating healthy habits is key to making lasting changes in your life. Rather than focusing on big, dramatic changes, start by making small, incremental changes that you can stick to over time. For example, instead of trying to completely overhaul your diet, start by adding one healthy food to each meal.
If your family is not eating healthily, you can prepare your own healthy meals and lead by example. For instance, if your family is having a dinner of pasta, you can prepare a bowl of greens for yourself. Eat it either before the pasta (this will also help improve your blood sugar response) or have it as a side. Having your family see that you are making better food choices can inspire them to do the same.
Surround Yourself with Positive Influences
While you may not be able to control the people around you, you can control the media and information that you consume. Surround yourself with positive influences, such as books, podcasts, and websites that promote healthy living. This will help reinforce your commitment to health and keep you motivated.
If you're struggling to find inspiration, try listening to a podcast about health and wellness, reading a book on healthy living, or following social media accounts that promote healthy lifestyles.
Practice Self-Care
When you're in an unsupportive environment, it's easy to feel stressed, anxious, and overwhelmed. That's why it's important to practice self-care on a regular basis. This could include activities like meditation, yoga, or simply taking a relaxing bath. By taking care of yourself, you'll be better equipped to handle the challenges of an unsupportive environment.
If you're feeling particularly stressed or anxious, take a few minutes to practice deep breathing exercises or mindfulness meditation. These techniques can help calm your mind and reduce stress levels.
Living in an unsupportive environment can be challenging, but it's not impossible to make positive changes in your life. Give yourself a clear reason why you want to make a change and what the outcome will be. This could be anything from lowering your blood pressure or preventing diabetes, to simply feeling more confident in your own body. When your reason for change is strong enough, you won't feel ashamed of doing something different than everyone else at the table. Instead, you'll increase the likelihood of inspiring others to make positive changes in their own lives.
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References:
Prochaska, J. O., & Velicer, W. F. (1997). The transtheoretical model of health behavior change. American Journal of Health Promotion, 12(1), 38-48.